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		<title>By: ben</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8434</link>
		<author>ben</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 16:48:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8434</guid>
					<description>Damn.

Sending good thoughts your way.  Don't know if it helps, but I'll do it anyway (cuz I'm like that)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Damn.</p>
<p>Sending good thoughts your way.  Don&#8217;t know if it helps, but I&#8217;ll do it anyway (cuz I&#8217;m like that)</p>
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		<title>By: Atomictumor</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8435</link>
		<author>Atomictumor</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 16:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8435</guid>
					<description>It helps, dude.</description>
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		<title>By: Mrs Eaves</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8438</link>
		<author>Mrs Eaves</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 16:57:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8438</guid>
					<description>So I do a google search on "dolls eye," and the third hit on the list is for www.bjcraftsupplies.com.  Weird.  Was it an absent dolls eye movement, or a bad dolls eye movement?

Faith comes and goes.  It's like a boomerang.  I've watched people close to me struggle with that for years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I do a google search on &#8220;dolls eye,&#8221; and the third hit on the list is for <a href="http://www.bjcraftsupplies.com." rel="nofollow">www.bjcraftsupplies.com.</a>  Weird.  Was it an absent dolls eye movement, or a bad dolls eye movement?</p>
<p>Faith comes and goes.  It&#8217;s like a boomerang.  I&#8217;ve watched people close to me struggle with that for years.</p>
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		<title>By: jennster</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8439</link>
		<author>jennster</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8439</guid>
					<description>your writing is so humbling and honest, it brings me to tears almost daily. thanks a lot. lol
but really, i don't know what to say, but i want to say SOMETHING.  something that makes me sound brilliant and fills you with so much hope and light and goodness that you're bounding off walls for the rest of the day.  but sometimes, i'm just not that clever.  and this is one of those times.  i have nothing.  except fake, bullshit, internet hugs for you-  and all my good thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your writing is so humbling and honest, it brings me to tears almost daily. thanks a lot. lol<br />
but really, i don&#8217;t know what to say, but i want to say SOMETHING.  something that makes me sound brilliant and fills you with so much hope and light and goodness that you&#8217;re bounding off walls for the rest of the day.  but sometimes, i&#8217;m just not that clever.  and this is one of those times.  i have nothing.  except fake, bullshit, internet hugs for you-  and all my good thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Kym</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8440</link>
		<author>Kym</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:08:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8440</guid>
					<description>I am really a lurker from afar, but my heart breaks for you and your family. Living in the Tampa area I know some of the unspoken fears or issues. Please do not lose faith, it's hard I know, and you are trying to have a productive life for those 2 sweet children that I only know through these posts, but feel you are blessed with them. I find myself checking around the time I think you are at the "show" just for updates. I also find myself praying throughout the day for you guys and wish that she would just wake up. 

I do not have words of wisdom, but I have a heart filled with faith for you and prayers. 

Kym</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am really a lurker from afar, but my heart breaks for you and your family. Living in the Tampa area I know some of the unspoken fears or issues. Please do not lose faith, it&#8217;s hard I know, and you are trying to have a productive life for those 2 sweet children that I only know through these posts, but feel you are blessed with them. I find myself checking around the time I think you are at the &#8220;show&#8221; just for updates. I also find myself praying throughout the day for you guys and wish that she would just wake up. </p>
<p>I do not have words of wisdom, but I have a heart filled with faith for you and prayers. </p>
<p>Kym</p>
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		<title>By: califdudes</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8442</link>
		<author>califdudes</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8442</guid>
					<description>Because, like jennster, I want to say something I will borrow:
1 Corinthians 13, which states, "In the end there are faith, hope and love, these three; and the greatest of these is love." 

Horizon Of Promised Expectation (H.O.P.E)
By Michael Hickey

Hope is imagining the unrealized,
What is longed for and foreseen,
Always oriented to the future,
Not what is or ever has been.

It is spring in the dead of winter,
Sunrise at darkest of night,
In the bottomless abyss 
called "God",
But a tiny beam of light.

Horizon Of Promised Expectation,
Unknown, uncontrolled, uncertain,
Beyond planning or self-calculation,
Awaiting the rising of our curtain.

The seed within our flower,
The flower in our seed,
God's providential power,
Supplying what we need.

An attitude of eternity,
An advent, but a not yet,
A transcendent leap internally,
Without need of safety net.

Always involving a risk,
Of danger, failure, despairing,
With opposites being twofold,
A prideful, deadly pairing.

Despair; anticipated failure,
Presumption; anticipated success,
Both assume a given outcome,
Self-assurance, beyond any guess.

Hope keeps spirit youthful,
Never becoming quite grown,
Time open unto infinity,
A dimension all of its own.

It is our daydream of tomorrow,
Leading to God on a bumpy ride,
Requiring a power beyond us,
Asked but to trust and abide.

Forbidding our human creation,
Of any worldly paradise,
Spending life and its duration,
While rolling heaven's dice.

When faith is seen; hope realized,
Wisdom will then evolve to be,
On the shore as future wave,
Brought by wind tossed, stormy sea.

It's the day of our own resurrection,
God ahead, not only above,
Horizon Of Promised Expectation,
Faith before, hope within, ahead; 
only love.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because, like jennster, I want to say something I will borrow:<br />
1 Corinthians 13, which states, &#8220;In the end there are faith, hope and love, these three; and the greatest of these is love.&#8221; </p>
<p>Horizon Of Promised Expectation (H.O.P.E)<br />
By Michael Hickey</p>
<p>Hope is imagining the unrealized,<br />
What is longed for and foreseen,<br />
Always oriented to the future,<br />
Not what is or ever has been.</p>
<p>It is spring in the dead of winter,<br />
Sunrise at darkest of night,<br />
In the bottomless abyss<br />
called &#8220;God&#8221;,<br />
But a tiny beam of light.</p>
<p>Horizon Of Promised Expectation,<br />
Unknown, uncontrolled, uncertain,<br />
Beyond planning or self-calculation,<br />
Awaiting the rising of our curtain.</p>
<p>The seed within our flower,<br />
The flower in our seed,<br />
God&#8217;s providential power,<br />
Supplying what we need.</p>
<p>An attitude of eternity,<br />
An advent, but a not yet,<br />
A transcendent leap internally,<br />
Without need of safety net.</p>
<p>Always involving a risk,<br />
Of danger, failure, despairing,<br />
With opposites being twofold,<br />
A prideful, deadly pairing.</p>
<p>Despair; anticipated failure,<br />
Presumption; anticipated success,<br />
Both assume a given outcome,<br />
Self-assurance, beyond any guess.</p>
<p>Hope keeps spirit youthful,<br />
Never becoming quite grown,<br />
Time open unto infinity,<br />
A dimension all of its own.</p>
<p>It is our daydream of tomorrow,<br />
Leading to God on a bumpy ride,<br />
Requiring a power beyond us,<br />
Asked but to trust and abide.</p>
<p>Forbidding our human creation,<br />
Of any worldly paradise,<br />
Spending life and its duration,<br />
While rolling heaven&#8217;s dice.</p>
<p>When faith is seen; hope realized,<br />
Wisdom will then evolve to be,<br />
On the shore as future wave,<br />
Brought by wind tossed, stormy sea.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s the day of our own resurrection,<br />
God ahead, not only above,<br />
Horizon Of Promised Expectation,<br />
Faith before, hope within, ahead;<br />
only love.</p>
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		<title>By: RLGelber</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8446</link>
		<author>RLGelber</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8446</guid>
					<description>I keep leaving comments, hoping that it's helping you AT.  I know you don't know me, but you guys haven't been far from my thoughts since I started reading.  My heart breaks for you and I hold my girls a little bit closer, hug them a little bit harder, and kiss them one more time before bed every night.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I keep leaving comments, hoping that it&#8217;s helping you AT.  I know you don&#8217;t know me, but you guys haven&#8217;t been far from my thoughts since I started reading.  My heart breaks for you and I hold my girls a little bit closer, hug them a little bit harder, and kiss them one more time before bed every night.</p>
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		<title>By: LGirl</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8447</link>
		<author>LGirl</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:41:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8447</guid>
					<description>Caring about you and your family in Nova Scotia. Sending only best wishes.


The one good thing? The hawk didn't pooh on you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Caring about you and your family in Nova Scotia. Sending only best wishes.</p>
<p>The one good thing? The hawk didn&#8217;t pooh on you!</p>
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		<title>By: Pam</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8448</link>
		<author>Pam</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:43:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8448</guid>
					<description>I also am one you don't know, but you and BJ occupy a piece of my heart because it is breaking daily for your plight. I wish I could make everything better, as we all do. I only hope my prayers have an effect and that the goodness I (and all the others) wish for you and your family comes through to sustain your strength.

As Mrs. Eaves said faith does ebb and flow. And I feel much like Jennster ... just wanting to help and hoping our words support you. 

Please take care of you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also am one you don&#8217;t know, but you and BJ occupy a piece of my heart because it is breaking daily for your plight. I wish I could make everything better, as we all do. I only hope my prayers have an effect and that the goodness I (and all the others) wish for you and your family comes through to sustain your strength.</p>
<p>As Mrs. Eaves said faith does ebb and flow. And I feel much like Jennster &#8230; just wanting to help and hoping our words support you. </p>
<p>Please take care of you.</p>
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		<title>By: Aunt Nun</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8449</link>
		<author>Aunt Nun</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 17:43:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8449</guid>
					<description>If I were you, I'd be shaking my fist at God by now.  I highly recommend it.  God's got big shoulders and can take it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I were you, I&#8217;d be shaking my fist at God by now.  I highly recommend it.  God&#8217;s got big shoulders and can take it.</p>
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		<title>By: Ericka Erwin</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8452</link>
		<author>Ericka Erwin</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 18:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8452</guid>
					<description>I, too, feel like jennster. I wish I could say something to make it better. Those words just are not there. I admire you for keeping your hope and finding your faith during this. And I don't mean faith=God, I just mean faith that she will come back. Faith that something will bring her back to you the way she would want to be. Miracles do happen everyday. Just continue to believe, as we will believe that something good is going to happen. It may not be soon but it will happen. And in the meantime, if you need someone to lean on, you have many to choose from. We love you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, feel like jennster. I wish I could say something to make it better. Those words just are not there. I admire you for keeping your hope and finding your faith during this. And I don&#8217;t mean faith=God, I just mean faith that she will come back. Faith that something will bring her back to you the way she would want to be. Miracles do happen everyday. Just continue to believe, as we will believe that something good is going to happen. It may not be soon but it will happen. And in the meantime, if you need someone to lean on, you have many to choose from. We love you!</p>
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		<title>By: Sue Williams</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8457</link>
		<author>Sue Williams</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 18:34:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8457</guid>
					<description>Sweet man, you are working your way through stages of grief.  That is driving some of your thoughts.  Ask at the hospital for a grief councellor, I'm sure they have one, and just finding out what the process is, and where you are on it.  You can talk about what you are facing and feeling, and he/she can give you some perspective.  It won't make the process go away, you will go through it whether you ask about it or not.  But if you hear about the stages of grieving, it might help you get through it without cracking up.  You would bargain your digits and limbs for BJ, we would bargain our serenity for your peace of mind.  Just keep breathing.  That's all.  If you keep breathing, you will outlast this terrible time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sweet man, you are working your way through stages of grief.  That is driving some of your thoughts.  Ask at the hospital for a grief councellor, I&#8217;m sure they have one, and just finding out what the process is, and where you are on it.  You can talk about what you are facing and feeling, and he/she can give you some perspective.  It won&#8217;t make the process go away, you will go through it whether you ask about it or not.  But if you hear about the stages of grieving, it might help you get through it without cracking up.  You would bargain your digits and limbs for BJ, we would bargain our serenity for your peace of mind.  Just keep breathing.  That&#8217;s all.  If you keep breathing, you will outlast this terrible time.</p>
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		<title>By: meice</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8458</link>
		<author>meice</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 18:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8458</guid>
					<description>I know we should be giving the doctors the benefit of the doubt.  I'm not a doctor, I'm not even an armchair doctor but damn man, amputations...   Thats serious and something, if it were me, that I'd need quiet a few doctors to convince me it was needed.  

I had to re-read through the posts, this amputation business took me off guard.  I've been starting at this reply for a while, trying to compile my words and thoughts so as to express my frustration with your situation without adding to the depressing situation.  As long as she's taking steps to recovery, there is hope.  Even if they are only the steps of a toddler who stumbles.  

Thats all.  We're rooting for you all.

The asshole in me wants to advise you to avoid the temptation of neogenics and don't splice in any salamander or lizard DNA.  My Spiderman costume isn't fitting well these days.  The asshole in me also wants to take credit for the zombie remark.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know we should be giving the doctors the benefit of the doubt.  I&#8217;m not a doctor, I&#8217;m not even an armchair doctor but damn man, amputations&#8230;   Thats serious and something, if it were me, that I&#8217;d need quiet a few doctors to convince me it was needed.  </p>
<p>I had to re-read through the posts, this amputation business took me off guard.  I&#8217;ve been starting at this reply for a while, trying to compile my words and thoughts so as to express my frustration with your situation without adding to the depressing situation.  As long as she&#8217;s taking steps to recovery, there is hope.  Even if they are only the steps of a toddler who stumbles.  </p>
<p>Thats all.  We&#8217;re rooting for you all.</p>
<p>The asshole in me wants to advise you to avoid the temptation of neogenics and don&#8217;t splice in any salamander or lizard DNA.  My Spiderman costume isn&#8217;t fitting well these days.  The asshole in me also wants to take credit for the zombie remark.</p>
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		<title>By: meice</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8460</link>
		<author>meice</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 18:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8460</guid>
					<description>I struck it out on my Get Well post because no matter how much salt you pour on it, I tought it was in bad taste.  Plus at the time this thing just started and I figured she'd get a laugh out of it when she read it. 

I'm sure she'll get a chuckle out of it when she gets to reading it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I struck it out on my Get Well post because no matter how much salt you pour on it, I tought it was in bad taste.  Plus at the time this thing just started and I figured she&#8217;d get a laugh out of it when she read it. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure she&#8217;ll get a chuckle out of it when she gets to reading it.</p>
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		<title>By: newscoma</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8462</link>
		<author>newscoma</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8462</guid>
					<description>AT,
Man, I wish there was some way to come up with words that would fix all this.
Unfortunately, I can't think of one other than I'm thinking of you and I don't know if I've ever read anything more brutal and honest about love.
I wish her and you well.
Sending what I have through the cosmos to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AT,<br />
Man, I wish there was some way to come up with words that would fix all this.<br />
Unfortunately, I can&#8217;t think of one other than I&#8217;m thinking of you and I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ve ever read anything more brutal and honest about love.<br />
I wish her and you well.<br />
Sending what I have through the cosmos to you.</p>
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		<title>By: Busy Mom</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8466</link>
		<author>Busy Mom</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8466</guid>
					<description>Still here...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Still here&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Allisone</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8468</link>
		<author>Allisone</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8468</guid>
					<description>I want an AuntNun. Seriously, the lady knows of what she speaks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want an AuntNun. Seriously, the lady knows of what she speaks.</p>
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		<title>By: Lunasea</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8470</link>
		<author>Lunasea</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:28:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8470</guid>
					<description>I keep expecting that GAC will come out of this as suddenly as she went in. As the days go by and that doesn't happen, my heart breaks more and more for you and everyone who loves her.

I think you were in a state of grace last week - but you can't stay there all the time, which sucks. In my limited experience, though, it always comes back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I keep expecting that GAC will come out of this as suddenly as she went in. As the days go by and that doesn&#8217;t happen, my heart breaks more and more for you and everyone who loves her.</p>
<p>I think you were in a state of grace last week - but you can&#8217;t stay there all the time, which sucks. In my limited experience, though, it always comes back.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8472</link>
		<author>Amanda</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:31:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8472</guid>
					<description>Still keeping you in my thoughts.</description>
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		<title>By: Judy</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8473</link>
		<author>Judy</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:35:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8473</guid>
					<description>AT, hang in there.  There are ZILLIONS of us out here, praying for you and holding you and your family close to our hearts.  I can't even imagine how tough this is for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>AT, hang in there.  There are ZILLIONS of us out here, praying for you and holding you and your family close to our hearts.  I can&#8217;t even imagine how tough this is for you.</p>
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		<title>By: miriam</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8478</link>
		<author>miriam</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 19:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8478</guid>
					<description>Still here, praying, reading. Aunt Nun's right- He can handle anger, and in order to be honest with Him it's impossible to never show it. Also, the greatest theologians out there write and think regularly about crisis and challenges to their faith. 

But mostly I just wanted to be one of the many telling you we're thinking of you and yours.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Still here, praying, reading. Aunt Nun&#8217;s right- He can handle anger, and in order to be honest with Him it&#8217;s impossible to never show it. Also, the greatest theologians out there write and think regularly about crisis and challenges to their faith. </p>
<p>But mostly I just wanted to be one of the many telling you we&#8217;re thinking of you and yours.</p>
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		<title>By: katie allison granju</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8479</link>
		<author>katie allison granju</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 20:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8479</guid>
					<description>Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, BJ, and your kids. Your writing is beautiful; I really get a sense of all the things you love about your wife. May she come back to you and her babies soon.

Katie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you, BJ, and your kids. Your writing is beautiful; I really get a sense of all the things you love about your wife. May she come back to you and her babies soon.</p>
<p>Katie</p>
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		<title>By: bennie</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8485</link>
		<author>bennie</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 21:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8485</guid>
					<description>In the midst of our own family crisis at the moment.  We're dealing with that anger with God crap as well.  Since I don't have the ability to pray for myself these days I'll throw one up to the Big Guy for you and your family.  I'm just so sorry for you. I wish you peace and comfort.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the midst of our own family crisis at the moment.  We&#8217;re dealing with that anger with God crap as well.  Since I don&#8217;t have the ability to pray for myself these days I&#8217;ll throw one up to the Big Guy for you and your family.  I&#8217;m just so sorry for you. I wish you peace and comfort.</p>
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		<title>By: DJ</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8489</link>
		<author>DJ</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 21:20:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8489</guid>
					<description>Dear, dear AT, 

I fly a lot for work and the moment I step on to a plane, every time, I whisper to whoever might be listening, "Bring me home to my sweetheart safe."  When there's unusual turbulence during the flight, I close my eyes and picture the outline of a giant hand --outlined like Wonder Woman's invisible jet on the Superfriends, you know -- reaching toward the plane, and the plane's nose just nudging into the hand, until the turbulence stops.  Anyway, I've been whispering to whoever, to bring BJ home to you safe, picturing that great big hand lifting you and BJ up, up, up.

Monday afternoon love and light from midtown Manhattan.  Be as well as you can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear, dear AT, </p>
<p>I fly a lot for work and the moment I step on to a plane, every time, I whisper to whoever might be listening, &#8220;Bring me home to my sweetheart safe.&#8221;  When there&#8217;s unusual turbulence during the flight, I close my eyes and picture the outline of a giant hand &#8211;outlined like Wonder Woman&#8217;s invisible jet on the Superfriends, you know &#8212; reaching toward the plane, and the plane&#8217;s nose just nudging into the hand, until the turbulence stops.  Anyway, I&#8217;ve been whispering to whoever, to bring BJ home to you safe, picturing that great big hand lifting you and BJ up, up, up.</p>
<p>Monday afternoon love and light from midtown Manhattan.  Be as well as you can.</p>
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		<title>By: DJ</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8492</link>
		<author>DJ</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 21:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8492</guid>
					<description>PS:  Just lit a candle for BJ online:

</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>PS:  Just lit a candle for BJ online:</p>
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		<title>By: DJ</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8493</link>
		<author>DJ</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 21:39:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8493</guid>
					<description>http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng" rel="nofollow">http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/enter.cfm?l=eng</a></p>
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		<title>By: DJ</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8502</link>
		<author>DJ</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:16:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8502</guid>
					<description>Candles here:

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&#38;gi=GAC

and

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&#38;gi=BJ

and

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&#38;gi=BJ%2FAT</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Candles here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&amp;gi=GAC" rel="nofollow">http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&amp;gi=GAC</a></p>
<p>and</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&amp;gi=BJ" rel="nofollow">http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&amp;gi=BJ</a></p>
<p>and</p>
<p><a href="http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&amp;gi=BJ%2FAT" rel="nofollow">http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&amp;gi=BJ%2FAT</a></p>
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		<title>By: Alison</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8504</link>
		<author>Alison</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:16:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8504</guid>
					<description>Crouching Mommy sent me. 

I'm sending BJ, you, and your family my very best thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Crouching Mommy sent me. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m sending BJ, you, and your family my very best thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: AT</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8509</link>
		<author>AT</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8509</guid>
					<description>Thanks very much, Alison</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks very much, Alison</p>
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		<title>By: Candace</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8511</link>
		<author>Candace</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8511</guid>
					<description>I am praying for you and your family.  I am in amazement at how you keep your thoughts here for us to share.  I lift you and your boys and your wife to the Glory of God.  May he help you through this difficult and painful time.  I, too, lit a candle for you and your family.  We are here and thinking of you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am praying for you and your family.  I am in amazement at how you keep your thoughts here for us to share.  I lift you and your boys and your wife to the Glory of God.  May he help you through this difficult and painful time.  I, too, lit a candle for you and your family.  We are here and thinking of you&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: jessthemess</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8513</link>
		<author>jessthemess</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:41:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8513</guid>
					<description>I huess my thoughts are along jennster's, but I wanted you to know my thoughts are with you.  Dh and I are the same age and have been married about the same time, and coincidentally dh has been dx as bipolar as well.. I think of you and your family everyday and know she will make it back to you..

til then ya'll are in my thoughts and prayers</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I huess my thoughts are along jennster&#8217;s, but I wanted you to know my thoughts are with you.  Dh and I are the same age and have been married about the same time, and coincidentally dh has been dx as bipolar as well.. I think of you and your family everyday and know she will make it back to you..</p>
<p>til then ya&#8217;ll are in my thoughts and prayers</p>
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		<title>By: Double Trouble</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8514</link>
		<author>Double Trouble</author>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Nov 2006 23:49:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8514</guid>
					<description>Your story fills me with awe.  That you can funtion and be someone for your kids is so heartwarming.  I send prayers and wish you luck in keeping faith...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your story fills me with awe.  That you can funtion and be someone for your kids is so heartwarming.  I send prayers and wish you luck in keeping faith&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Atomictumor</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8519</link>
		<author>Atomictumor</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2006 00:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8519</guid>
					<description>I gots good kids, and a mighty helpful family.  It helps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I gots good kids, and a mighty helpful family.  It helps.</p>
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		<title>By: Jem</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8759</link>
		<author>Jem</author>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2006 23:20:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8759</guid>
					<description>I live in New Zealand, and someone took it upon themselves to put up these nice God ads around town. A black bilboard, with white text, saying stuff like "I don't mind if you yell at me. At least we're talking. - God" so there you go. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I live in New Zealand, and someone took it upon themselves to put up these nice God ads around town. A black bilboard, with white text, saying stuff like &#8220;I don&#8217;t mind if you yell at me. At least we&#8217;re talking. - God&#8221; so there you go. :)</p>
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		<title>By: Atomictumor</title>
		<link>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8797</link>
		<author>Atomictumor</author>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Nov 2006 02:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/13/375-hours-really/#comment-8797</guid>
					<description>Yeah, those God billboards were around here too, but not quite as permissive...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, those God billboards were around here too, but not quite as permissive&#8230;</p>
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