Comments on: Now http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/ Sat, 05 Jul 2008 10:42:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: yankee,transferred http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11089 yankee,transferred Wed, 22 Nov 2006 03:04:09 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11089 I am so sorry. I am so sorry.

]]> By: timsan1 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11092 timsan1 Wed, 22 Nov 2006 03:23:01 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11092 I am very sorry AT. With everything I am, I am so very sorry. All this is just not fair. There I said it -- it is just not fair. My prayers, for what they are worth, are for you and your boys. I don't think they will make the missing and the pain go away -- but at least I am lodging my complaint with God . . . I am very sorry AT. With everything I am, I am so very sorry. All this is just not fair. There I said it — it is just not fair.

My prayers, for what they are worth, are for you and your boys. I don’t think they will make the missing and the pain go away — but at least I am lodging my complaint with God . . .

]]> By: Nicole http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11093 Nicole Wed, 22 Nov 2006 03:26:21 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11093 I'm sorry. This is all just so awfully wrong. For what it's worth (hooboy, more assvice), I love the diamond idea. I told my husband a couple of years ago that he is to turn me into a diamond if the situation should arise. And I told him that any of our kids would get the same treatment (God forbid). It's a lovely, tangible memento, and an affirmation of your wife's beauty. I’m sorry. This is all just so awfully wrong.

For what it’s worth (hooboy, more assvice), I love the diamond idea. I told my husband a couple of years ago that he is to turn me into a diamond if the situation should arise. And I told him that any of our kids would get the same treatment (God forbid).

It’s a lovely, tangible memento, and an affirmation of your wife’s beauty.

]]> By: Busy Mom http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11096 Busy Mom Wed, 22 Nov 2006 03:35:39 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11096 I am so sorry. Thinking of you. I am so sorry. Thinking of you.

]]> By: Kate http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11113 Kate Wed, 22 Nov 2006 04:24:19 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11113 This goes without saying, but I'm gonna say it anyway... I really wish you didn't miss her. I really wish you could just rag on her for giving you such a scare. I really wish this story had a different ending. I imagine you've had moments of the same. This goes without saying, but I’m gonna say it anyway… I really wish you didn’t miss her. I really wish you could just rag on her for giving you such a scare. I really wish this story had a different ending.

I imagine you’ve had moments of the same.

]]> By: Timbo http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11119 Timbo Wed, 22 Nov 2006 04:39:44 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11119 Man, I've said it before and will many more times...... Stuff like this... SUCKS..... It truly sucks... Ya'll seem like such cool people.... I hate this for ya!!! Peace & Love be with you and the little guys!!! Man,
I’ve said it before and will many more times…… Stuff like this… SUCKS….. It truly sucks… Ya’ll seem like such cool people…. I hate this for ya!!! Peace & Love be with you and the little guys!!!

]]> By: LissaKay http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11121 LissaKay Wed, 22 Nov 2006 04:48:18 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11121 This grief thing is something that everyone handles differently, in their own way. Trust in yourself to find your way through. Know that you have dozens, perhaps hundreds of people caring very much about you and everyone that was touched by BJ's life. We are here, thinking of you, praying for you. This grief thing is something that everyone handles differently, in their own way. Trust in yourself to find your way through. Know that you have dozens, perhaps hundreds of people caring very much about you and everyone that was touched by BJ’s life. We are here, thinking of you, praying for you.

]]> By: Purple http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11122 Purple Wed, 22 Nov 2006 04:55:02 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11122 I appriciate anything you write. BJ wanted me to get on this blog when she first started it up, but here I am much later reading your words. You have my prayers. ~Allison I appriciate anything you write. BJ wanted me to get on this blog when she first started it up, but here I am much later reading your words. You have my prayers.
~Allison

]]> By: VA Bluebelle http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11143 VA Bluebelle Wed, 22 Nov 2006 06:22:13 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11143 Yea, see? You come..you go..highs..lows.. Remember her and celebrate her life, her love and her essence. BJ's spirit will always be with you and your boys. Every single time you mention her, think about her or bring her memories and stories alive you are honoring her. (And you don't need a Disney trip to do it)* *i'm with you on that, pal. Great poem tomorrow -gotta find it Yea, see?
You come..you go..highs..lows..

Remember her and celebrate her life, her love and her essence.
BJ’s spirit will always be with you and your boys.
Every single time you mention her, think about her or bring her memories and stories alive you are honoring her.

(And you don’t need a Disney trip to do it)*

*i’m with you on that, pal. Great poem tomorrow -gotta find it

]]> By: desertwind http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11168 desertwind Wed, 22 Nov 2006 08:21:17 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11168 Much love to you and the boys and to BJ and all your family and friends, from a new internet friend way out west in the Mojave Desert, California. Much love to you and the boys and to BJ and all your family and friends,

from a new internet friend way out west in the Mojave Desert, California.

]]> By: Rangerdog http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11178 Rangerdog Wed, 22 Nov 2006 09:12:31 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11178 Hang on Brother, Lots of folks thinking of ya. Lost someone close myself a few months ago. I took care of her for 18.5 years, she was ill. Is very hard to get through. Lots of advise from well meaning Friends & Loved ones, but their words Sorta sounds like Charlie Brown's Teacher talking. Even though what they say makes sense (from time-to-time). It's Rough, Going to get Rougher, and then some better, Then alot better. I Can say that I really don't know how or why it's that way...Just is. I've been reading about GAC since it started. My wife works @ the preschool, that's how I knew about it. Hang Tough my Friend, Hold on to the "Core" inside. Lots of prayers are in your "Space" right now. Tap into them, and when you think the worst is upon you.... Afterwards, when it gets "some Better" you realize that's what got ya through when you weren't @ home in your self. Hang on Friend, Hang on. Hang on Brother, Lots of folks thinking of ya. Lost someone close myself a few months ago. I took care of her for 18.5 years, she was ill. Is very hard to get through. Lots of advise from well meaning Friends & Loved ones, but their words Sorta sounds like Charlie Brown’s Teacher talking. Even though what they say makes sense (from time-to-time). It’s Rough, Going to get Rougher, and then some better, Then alot better. I Can say that I really don’t know how or why it’s that way…Just is. I’ve been reading about GAC since it started. My wife works @ the preschool, that’s how I knew about it. Hang Tough my Friend, Hold on to the “Core” inside. Lots of prayers are in your “Space” right now. Tap into them, and when you think the worst is upon you…. Afterwards, when it gets “some Better” you realize that’s what got ya through when you weren’t @ home in your self. Hang on Friend, Hang on.

]]> By: Judy http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11207 Judy Wed, 22 Nov 2006 12:29:17 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11207 Getting caught up with you - I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you and the boys. Getting caught up with you - I’m so sorry. I’m thinking of you and the boys.

]]> By: Sista Smiff http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11218 Sista Smiff Wed, 22 Nov 2006 12:56:22 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11218 Bless you, AT. Bless you, AT.

]]> By: VirginiaGal http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11224 VirginiaGal Wed, 22 Nov 2006 13:46:47 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11224 No assvise here, just thinking of you, the boys, families, and friends. No assvise here, just thinking of you, the boys, families, and friends.

]]> By: ambular http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11227 ambular Wed, 22 Nov 2006 13:56:15 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/21/now/#comment-11227 thinking of you and your sweet boys today... thinking of you and your sweet boys today…

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