Comments on: 10 years http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/ Fri, 29 Aug 2008 19:25:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: sumgurl http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11411 sumgurl Thu, 23 Nov 2006 04:02:11 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11411 it's just so tempting when it says "no comments be the first" ... i'm happy you had a good day. i'm happy G had a good birthday and pigpen is dealing. sleep well. it’s just so tempting when it says “no comments be the first” … i’m happy you had a good day. i’m happy G had a good birthday and pigpen is dealing. sleep well.

]]> By: hannah http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11421 hannah Thu, 23 Nov 2006 05:18:34 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11421 Hi...you don't know me. I am so awed by this (and all of your other) posts. Your story and your son's stories and your wife's stories are so unbelievably inspiring. I'm just totally amazed. Thank you so much for writing this. I hope it's helping you like it's helping me. sleep well. hannah Hi…you don’t know me.

I am so awed by this (and all of your other) posts. Your story and your son’s stories and your wife’s stories are so unbelievably inspiring. I’m just totally amazed. Thank you so much for writing this. I hope it’s helping you like it’s helping me.

sleep well.

hannah

]]> By: Lynda http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11422 Lynda Thu, 23 Nov 2006 05:25:15 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11422 You dealt with a lot of grief early on. Maybe that's why you are getting along better than you expected right now. I''m glad to hear that the boys are doing so well, too. You dealt with a lot of grief early on. Maybe that’s why you are getting along better than you expected right now. I”m glad to hear that the boys are doing so well, too.

]]> By: Meredith http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11495 Meredith Thu, 23 Nov 2006 12:07:57 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11495 Thoughts with you again today...glad you are feeling at peace. Hugs across the "net" to your family. Thoughts with you again today…glad you are feeling at peace. Hugs across the “net” to your family.

]]> By: Lynne http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11497 Lynne Thu, 23 Nov 2006 12:37:17 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11497 At, reading your words in all your entries is a little like reading and analyzing my thoughts over the past few months. What I've been feeling is here, the ups, the downs, the annoyances - you've given me food for thought and the ability to tell myself - "see, this is normal" Thank you At, reading your words in all your entries is a little like reading and analyzing my thoughts over the past few months. What I’ve been feeling is here, the ups, the downs, the annoyances - you’ve given me food for thought and the ability to tell myself - “see, this is normal”
Thank you

]]> By: ktel http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11499 ktel Thu, 23 Nov 2006 12:45:37 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11499 Someone gave GoldenAppleCorp a Total fark sponsorship over at Fark. Why don't you come over and see why BJ was stuck there? Someone gave GoldenAppleCorp a Total fark sponsorship over at Fark. Why don’t you come over and see why BJ was stuck there?

]]> By: Tracy http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11500 Tracy Thu, 23 Nov 2006 12:52:40 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11500 AT - Sitting here thinking about you guys on this wonderful Thanksgiving morning. AT - Sitting here thinking about you guys on this wonderful Thanksgiving morning.

]]> By: Deb http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11501 Deb Thu, 23 Nov 2006 12:56:20 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11501 AT, Sounds like your boys are doing very well. It just proves what great parenting you and BJ provided together. So glad G had a good birthday. Hugs. AT, Sounds like your boys are doing very well. It just proves what great parenting you and BJ provided together.

So glad G had a good birthday.

Hugs.

]]> By: SandyT http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11505 SandyT Thu, 23 Nov 2006 13:22:50 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11505 Hey AT, Glad to hear you had a good day, and that G had a good birthday. I'm sure the boys and you will continue to look out the windows and just seem to stare, very deep in thought, and that's ok. You have lots of strength right now and that is good, it is needed. You will at some point feel the loss more in different ways, but as you will get through that too. Your faith is getting stronger, and that peace that passes all understanding will envelop you more at certain times than others - but the beautiful part of all of this is that you and the boys are close and loving each other and respecting each other and trusting in each other's love. The way that you and the boys are handling things is very admiring and encouraging. I know that BJ's parents appreciate your comforting words, and I'm sure it is hard at times, but you are finding words and other ways of showing your support to them. It is a time of drawing each of you closer together. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers - that will never stop AT, never. You have so much to be thankful for in spite of losing one so dear to you. This will be a Thanksgiving in many ways that you will never forget - may there be a lot of good in the midst of sadness. God bless. Hey AT, Glad to hear you had a good day, and that G had a good birthday. I’m sure the boys and you will continue to look out the windows and just seem to stare, very deep in thought, and that’s ok. You have lots of strength right now and that is good, it is needed. You will at some point feel the loss more in different ways, but as you will get through that too. Your faith is getting stronger, and that peace that passes all understanding will envelop you more at certain times than others - but the beautiful part of all of this is that you and the boys are close and loving each other and respecting each other and trusting in each other’s love. The way that you and the boys are handling things is very admiring and encouraging. I know that BJ’s parents appreciate your comforting words, and I’m sure it is hard at times, but you are finding words and other ways of showing your support to them. It is a time of drawing each of you closer together. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers - that will never stop AT, never. You have so much to be thankful for in spite of losing one so dear to you.
This will be a Thanksgiving in many ways that you will never forget - may there be a lot of good in the midst of sadness. God bless.

]]> By: Tonya http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11517 Tonya Thu, 23 Nov 2006 14:03:49 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/22/10-years/#comment-11517 I know everyone has to think about these times and things in there own way....I still catch my 8 yr old staring profoundly out the window, looking at a picture or doing something where I know she is deep in thought about her Dad. Sometimes I let it go and sometimes I engage her in conversation to see what's going on inside that little head. My four year old was so young and our explanation of what happened with the bleed inside his head has only perpetuated some really strange questions and conversations with her! In your closing you said you wish BJ could have made it this far and there have been times that I know my girls dad would have loved to see, like at their first horse show, but I like to think he is still here in so many ways and that the girls know it. I know you will keep BJ "here" and in your lives - you're gonna do great! I know everyone has to think about these times and things in there own way….I still catch my 8 yr old staring profoundly out the window, looking at a picture or doing something where I know she is deep in thought about her Dad. Sometimes I let it go and sometimes I engage her in conversation to see what’s going on inside that little head. My four year old was so young and our explanation of what happened with the bleed inside his head has only perpetuated some really strange questions and conversations with her!
In your closing you said you wish BJ could have made it this far and there have been times that I know my girls dad would have loved to see, like at their first horse show, but I like to think he is still here in so many ways and that the girls know it. I know you will keep BJ “here” and in your lives - you’re gonna do great!

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