Been busy today

November 24th, 2006 by Atomictumor

Well, its the last day of my life before BJ’s funeral, and I’ve been keeping busy.  Heres the literary for those keeping score:

  • 6 AM - Woke up.  Tumor still down.  Laid in bed, pondered.
  • 6:45 AM - Read comic books on computer
  • 7:30 AM - Got up, ‘tumor still down.  Sighed.  Popped in movie for Pigpen.  Cuddled Pigpen.  Nodbob asleep on couch, KatyK and MastaG asleep in playroom.
  • 8:30 AM - Left with Pigpen to Social Security building.  Waited, he played with Spiderman very patiently.
  • 9:00 AM - Spoke with worker, said that it would be a several hour wait to talk to somebody about survivor benefits.  Made appointment for 12/6.
  • 9:30 AM - Left SSI place, went to funeral home.  Picked out urn for BJ’s ashes.
    Incidentally, we’ve decided to hold off on the diamond thing, which is the decision I would have made anyway.  Seriously, don’t give me advice not to do that kinda stuff, folks, it just reinforces my urge to do it for spite.
    Anyway, I picked out a nice urn for BJ.  Its one that BJ’s mom should like, instead of one that BJ would like, which seems appropriate to me.  It has a handpainted clock on it.  Not my taste, but neither is keeping her ashes.  It’d be, to me, like keeping a bottle of urine, or something.
  • 10:30 AM - Treated Pigpen to Chik-fil-a for being such a great boy.  He enjoyed his food, and played on the playground for a good hour.
  • 11:30 AM - Nodbob, MastaG, and KatyK drove BJ’s van to Chik-fil-a, and ate.
  • 12:00 PM - Traveled to Staples, arranged for pictures to be blown up.  Purchased supplies for celebratory wake at Barleys.  Left my car at Chik-Fil-A, shhh.
  • 1:00 PM - Got home.  Popped Pigpen in bed, he played himself pretty tired, and was yelling.  He went down like a good boy.
  • 1:30 - 4:00 PM - Worked with Pigpen to create stuff for celebratory wake.  Seriously, we made some cool stuff.  BJ would be proud.  I look forward to seeing it.  It’ll be INTERACTIVE, like an old 90’s PC.
  • 4:00 PM - Took kids and Nodbob to skate park.
  • 5:00 PM - Came home, started writing post.  Well, more like 5:30.  Anyway.

So, we’re going to eat with Mom, Aunt Nun, and my aunt Jenny, who I don’t think filled out the proper paperwork for a special internet name.  She’s GBScientist’s mom, for those keeping track.

I’m staring off into space a lot today.  I’m tired.  I’m sore.

Time to eat.  Adios.

4 Responses to “Been busy today”



  1. Busy Mom Says:

    Just wanted to say hello!

  2. Jane Says:

    Tomorrow will be hard - yes. BJ will be with you and the boys though. Be open to that feeling.

    Good call on the urn. Ashes and urns are not what BJ is about now.
    Will be sending extra peace your way tonight and tomorrow.

    Let BJ be with you and may peace be with you also.

  3. Allisone Says:

    Tell AuntNun hi for me.

  4. Allisone Says:

    Half my comment went away :(
    I also said that I still want an AuntNun, that I have more of an AuntDorisDayWannabe (but we love her anyway).
    Also, sounds like PigPen was a great helper today!