Comments on: Back on the roof http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/ Wed, 19 Nov 2008 12:21:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: Susan http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11774 Susan Sat, 25 Nov 2006 17:48:23 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11774 I'm so glad to hear everything went well and that the formal obligations are over. I hope your celebration goes as well tonight. I prayed today that your family will have strength at this time. My thoughts are with you, AT. I’m so glad to hear everything went well and that the formal obligations are over. I hope your celebration goes as well tonight. I prayed today that your family will have strength at this time. My thoughts are with you, AT.

]]> By: Susan http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11775 Susan Sat, 25 Nov 2006 17:50:13 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11775 I'm also glad to see that your most recent post was only tagged "love" and not also "pain." I wish you many, many more of those. I’m also glad to see that your most recent post was only tagged “love” and not also “pain.” I wish you many, many more of those.

]]> By: Netmom http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11777 Netmom Sat, 25 Nov 2006 18:05:08 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11777 Aunt Nun & Aunt Too (I made that up, but you know what I mean) conducted a beautiful service. I hope they'll attend tonight so I can tell them so. Aunt Nun & Aunt Too (I made that up, but you know what I mean) conducted a beautiful service. I hope they’ll attend tonight so I can tell them so.

]]> By: Jane http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11779 Jane Sat, 25 Nov 2006 18:29:47 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11779 Enjoy tonight. Let love be the point. Praying for you and MastaG and Pigpen. Enjoy tonight. Let love be the point.
Praying for you and MastaG and Pigpen.

]]> By: newscoma http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11780 newscoma Sat, 25 Nov 2006 18:49:48 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11780 I'm glad today went well. I’m glad today went well.

]]> By: Ericka http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11781 Ericka Sat, 25 Nov 2006 18:58:29 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11781 What I was trying to say at the ceremony, before my tears got the best of me was this, BJ is the type of mom I try to be. I admire and respect her so much. She always seemed to have it all pulled together. Your boys are so lucky to have her as their mom. She is such an amazing person. And the love that you all have between each other is priceless. If me and Evan have just half of that, I would consider us lucky! I'm sorry that I never got to tell her what a great person I thought she was, but I'm sure she knows now. We will see you tonight. What I was trying to say at the ceremony, before my tears got the best of me was this, BJ is the type of mom I try to be. I admire and respect her so much. She always seemed to have it all pulled together. Your boys are so lucky to have her as their mom. She is such an amazing person. And the love that you all have between each other is priceless. If me and Evan have just half of that, I would consider us lucky! I’m sorry that I never got to tell her what a great person I thought she was, but I’m sure she knows now. We will see you tonight.

]]> By: KV http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11790 KV Sat, 25 Nov 2006 19:45:39 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11790 I have been reading here for about a week and you and your boys are in my thoughts a lot. You and BJ were lucky to have found such an amazing love, she'll be with you and the boys forever. Today is the anniversary of my mom's death and I will raise a glass to her and to BJ. After my mom's memorial we had quite the party at a local restaurant with lots of drinking and laughter, I hope that you all have a wonderful time tonight, too. From what you've said of BJ, I can tell she would have wanted you to have fun! I have been reading here for about a week and you and your boys are in my thoughts a lot. You and BJ were lucky to have found such an amazing love, she’ll be with you and the boys forever. Today is the anniversary of my mom’s death and I will raise a glass to her and to BJ. After my mom’s memorial we had quite the party at a local restaurant with lots of drinking and laughter, I hope that you all have a wonderful time tonight, too. From what you’ve said of BJ, I can tell she would have wanted you to have fun!

]]> By: jen http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11815 jen Sat, 25 Nov 2006 23:05:41 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11815 I was thinking about you today my thoughts are with you all I was thinking about you today my thoughts are with you all

]]> By: Busy Mom http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11834 Busy Mom Sun, 26 Nov 2006 01:51:30 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11834 Thinking of all of you today and have paid tribute. Thinking of all of you today and have paid tribute.

]]> By: Bob http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11835 Bob Sun, 26 Nov 2006 01:56:08 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11835 AT, Haven't been around for a few days, but I wanted to let you know you're still in my thoughts, especially today. All of you guys are. AT,

Haven’t been around for a few days, but I wanted to let you know you’re still in my thoughts, especially today. All of you guys are.

]]> By: RLGelber http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11839 RLGelber Sun, 26 Nov 2006 02:43:10 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11839 I saw you at 11:45, outside Martin's leaning on a truck (I think.) I'm sorry I didn't come. I wanted to, but I didn't want to intrude. I thought about you and your boys and BJ all day. It's almost 10 pm now, I hope you are all still "waking" downtown. My glass of red is held up to you - and BJ tonight. Peace AT. I saw you at 11:45, outside Martin’s leaning on a truck (I think.) I’m sorry I didn’t come. I wanted to, but I didn’t want to intrude. I thought about you and your boys and BJ all day. It’s almost 10 pm now, I hope you are all still “waking” downtown. My glass of red is held up to you - and BJ tonight. Peace AT.

]]> By: Christina http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11841 Christina Sun, 26 Nov 2006 02:54:38 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11841 Sending lots of love your way - I am glad today has gone well for you, and I hope you have found some comfort. We will keep you and the boys in our prayers for a long time coming. And glad tumor is back, you were missed. Sending lots of love your way - I am glad today has gone well for you, and I hope you have found some comfort. We will keep you and the boys in our prayers for a long time coming. And glad tumor is back, you were missed.

]]> By: Zapaper http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11846 Zapaper Sun, 26 Nov 2006 03:12:49 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11846 These last few posts are so poignant. I like to imagine you taking GAC laptop to the parking garage. Really enjoy reading the things you write whether about BJ, the boys, your story, your life now, or whatever else. Thank you for giving me this chance to get to "know" you all. BJ too, who seems as alive to me as any of you since to me you are all pixels, and you portray her so vividly. Hang in there. These last few posts are so poignant. I like to imagine you taking GAC laptop to the parking garage. Really enjoy reading the things you write whether about BJ, the boys, your story, your life now, or whatever else. Thank you for giving me this chance to get to “know” you all. BJ too, who seems as alive to me as any of you since to me you are all pixels, and you portray her so vividly. Hang in there.

]]> By: Mrs. Daco http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11847 Mrs. Daco Sun, 26 Nov 2006 03:26:31 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11847 Today was very nice. BJ would have loved it. Thanks for the hug! Today was very nice. BJ would have loved it.
Thanks for the hug!

]]> By: Lynda http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11860 Lynda Sun, 26 Nov 2006 04:59:39 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11860 Just checking in to see how it's going. Thinking about you and the boys today and wishing you the best. Hope you're having a great time tonight. Just checking in to see how it’s going. Thinking about you and the boys today and wishing you the best. Hope you’re having a great time tonight.

]]> By: Mary-LUE http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11881 Mary-LUE Sun, 26 Nov 2006 06:19:57 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/25/back-on-the-roof/#comment-11881 Briefly delurking again. Just wanted you to know, AT, that I come by all the time to see how you are doing. I don't comment usually because I'm not sure what I can say but I've been reading since a few days after BJ was admitted to the hospital. I think today I just wanted to say two things: 1. I think you are grieving the way you need to grieve. Don't let anyone else tell you any different; and 2. Even if I don't comment, I'm one of those people out there who are thinking about you and the boys and I will be for a long time. A lot of us will be here for you in that wierd internet bloggy way. Briefly delurking again. Just wanted you to know, AT, that I come by all the time to see how you are doing. I don’t comment usually because I’m not sure what I can say but I’ve been reading since a few days after BJ was admitted to the hospital. I think today I just wanted to say two things: 1. I think you are grieving the way you need to grieve. Don’t let anyone else tell you any different; and 2. Even if I don’t comment, I’m one of those people out there who are thinking about you and the boys and I will be for a long time. A lot of us will be here for you in that wierd internet bloggy way.

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