Comments on: Loneliness http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/ Thu, 04 Dec 2008 21:17:43 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: Judy Gamble http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12901 Judy Gamble Thu, 30 Nov 2006 12:47:40 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12901 Well the rest of my email or blog or whatever didn't come through, so please write. Well the rest of my email or blog or whatever didn’t come through, so please write.

]]> By: Velvet Voice http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12902 Velvet Voice Thu, 30 Nov 2006 13:22:25 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12902 Feeling lonely in a room full of peeps is not unusual and it sucks... big, blue gobstoppers... meh. I wish I could make it better for you AT, I truly do. Much luv to you and the boys. P.S. I dunno why but I can't talk in the shout out box anymore :( I know I can be chatty but... sniffle... Waaaaaah heh Feeling lonely in a room full of peeps is not unusual and it sucks… big, blue gobstoppers… meh. I wish I could make it better for you AT, I truly do. Much luv to you and the boys.

P.S. I dunno why but I can’t talk in the shout out box anymore :( I know I can be chatty but… sniffle… Waaaaaah heh

]]> By: VirginiaGal http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12909 VirginiaGal Thu, 30 Nov 2006 13:50:23 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12909 You are so smart for being clear on keeping your communication with the kids on their level and being aware of not turning MastaG into your confidant or coparent. So many parents do that without thinking of the effect it has on the kids - my husband is 11 years older than his brother and their relationship has never just been as brothers, but a bit of brothers and a bit of parent/child (even though their parents are still together). They are still trying to figure out an adult relationship. grrr. Not that you need the validation, but, good job, anyway. Being alone in a crowd sucks. Yep. Sucks. Big fat hairy grasshoppers. You are so smart for being clear on keeping your communication with the kids on their level and being aware of not turning MastaG into your confidant or coparent. So many parents do that without thinking of the effect it has on the kids - my husband is 11 years older than his brother and their relationship has never just been as brothers, but a bit of brothers and a bit of parent/child (even though their parents are still together). They are still trying to figure out an adult relationship. grrr. Not that you need the validation, but, good job, anyway.

Being alone in a crowd sucks. Yep. Sucks. Big fat hairy grasshoppers.

]]> By: jenwright http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12925 jenwright Thu, 30 Nov 2006 15:54:39 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12925 At least you know that there are lots of people who would love to try to make you feel better, but I know that no one could give the companionship that you had with BJ but BJ. She was your super twin, and there just isn't anyone who can replace that, or even come close to it. If you ever want some little sister type companionship, though, I'm your woman. At least you know that there are lots of people who would love to try to make you feel better, but I know that no one could give the companionship that you had with BJ but BJ. She was your super twin, and there just isn’t anyone who can replace that, or even come close to it. If you ever want some little sister type companionship, though, I’m your woman.

]]> By: NOF http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12933 NOF Thu, 30 Nov 2006 17:20:03 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/11/30/loneliness/#comment-12933 It does suck, Jake. And no one can hold that against you for feeling that it sucks. Just remember, it will get better. It will. Time is your friend and time will help it. Only while time seems to pass do damn quickly in the big picture, it also passes so damn slowly. One day at a time. Hang in there. It does suck, Jake. And no one can hold that against you for feeling that it sucks. Just remember, it will get better. It will. Time is your friend and time will help it. Only while time seems to pass do damn quickly in the big picture, it also passes so damn slowly. One day at a time. Hang in there.

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