Comments on: Talking http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/ Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:03:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: Joel http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15829 Joel Mon, 18 Dec 2006 15:52:31 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15829 "Sadness is a tribute to her." Indeed. “Sadness is a tribute to her.”

Indeed.

]]> By: Jane http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15831 Jane Mon, 18 Dec 2006 15:55:10 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15831 So fitting then that you are still the one talking and writing and she is still silently loving you. ...and smiling when you talk about how much you love her. So fitting then that you are still the one talking and writing and she is still silently loving you.

…and smiling when you talk about how much you love her.

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15833 Jennifer Mon, 18 Dec 2006 16:27:23 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15833 Hang in there man. You and the kids are in my thoughts. Hang in there man. You and the kids are in my thoughts.

]]> By: VA Bluebelle http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15834 VA Bluebelle Mon, 18 Dec 2006 16:33:16 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15834 Thinking of you and the family today. May BJ's candle burn bright and fierce forever in your hearts. Thinking of you and the family today.

May BJ’s candle burn bright and fierce forever in your hearts.

]]> By: COCO (the Canadian version) http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15850 COCO (the Canadian version) Mon, 18 Dec 2006 19:21:46 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15850 ...that post was 'beauty'ful... …that post was ‘beauty’ful…

]]> By: sumgurl http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15853 sumgurl Mon, 18 Dec 2006 19:45:28 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15853 yes. yes.

]]> By: Knarf http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15862 Knarf Mon, 18 Dec 2006 22:03:15 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15862 Commented over in the real time, but wanted to comment here as well. Just wanted to check in and say Hi and to tell you that we are still here and still praying. I try to visit regularly but not comment as much as I do not want to be a bother. Bottomline, this is / was a great post, every hard to read, and very thought provoking. Great stuff. We are looking forward to the death metal CD / MP3 as that sounds like a top prospect of 2007 CD of the year. Know we are here, still praying and reading. Stay strong and be courageous. Commented over in the real time, but wanted to comment here as well. Just wanted to check in and say Hi and to tell you that we are still here and still praying.

I try to visit regularly but not comment as much as I do not want to be a bother. Bottomline, this is / was a great post, every hard to read, and very thought provoking. Great stuff.

We are looking forward to the death metal CD / MP3 as that sounds like a top prospect of 2007 CD of the year.

Know we are here, still praying and reading. Stay strong and be courageous.

]]> By: jules http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15876 jules Tue, 19 Dec 2006 01:22:32 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15876 Still here, still thinking of you. I wholeheartedly agree about your sadness being a tribute to her. Everything you have been writing about, the story of your love, as well as what you're going through now-- it's all a big, beautiful tribute. Any of us would be lucky in our own lifetimes to share a love like the one you & BJ do. Jules Still here, still thinking of you. I wholeheartedly agree about your sadness being a tribute to her. Everything you have been writing about, the story of your love, as well as what you’re going through now– it’s all a big, beautiful tribute. Any of us would be lucky in our own lifetimes to share a love like the one you & BJ do. Jules

]]> By: Jean http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15878 Jean Tue, 19 Dec 2006 02:16:37 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15878 Aw hell. It's 8:18 here, which means it's 9:18 there...hope that 8:37 came and went without too much agony. I know that wherever she is, she's thinking of you too. Aw hell. It’s 8:18 here, which means it’s 9:18 there…hope that 8:37 came and went without too much agony. I know that wherever she is, she’s thinking of you too.

]]> By: Atomictumor http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15911 Atomictumor Tue, 19 Dec 2006 13:54:19 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15911 Actually, at 8:37 I was sitting in the front yard looking at the spot where we had our renewal, completely oblivious to the fact that it was 8:37. Worked out well, I felt a nice feeling of peace. Actually, at 8:37 I was sitting in the front yard looking at the spot where we had our renewal, completely oblivious to the fact that it was 8:37. Worked out well, I felt a nice feeling of peace.

]]> By: Jean http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15965 Jean Tue, 19 Dec 2006 22:23:42 +0000 http://www.atomictumor.com/2006/12/18/talking/#comment-15965 FWIW, I think you're handling this amazingly well, considering the suckitude of it all. I damn near lost my marbles and all the friends I had when my dad died...well, it didn't help that around the same time I lost my job and had to move to a new town hundreds of miles from all my friends in the old one... The really crappy thing was I felt so bad that I pretty much couldn't trust my emotions, at all, ever, and it took me a while to un-learn that once things settled down. It's hard to describe, but it was damn hard to make friends while I was feeling like all I wanted to do was go hide in a hole. It finally went away, but I don't even really want to tell you how damn long it took. I think some change is probably good, but I waited like two years longer than I should have to marry my now-hubster, simply cause I didn't trust myself. FWIW, I think you’re handling this amazingly well, considering the suckitude of it all. I damn near lost my marbles and all the friends I had when my dad died…well, it didn’t help that around the same time I lost my job and had to move to a new town hundreds of miles from all my friends in the old one…

The really crappy thing was I felt so bad that I pretty much couldn’t trust my emotions, at all, ever, and it took me a while to un-learn that once things settled down. It’s hard to describe, but it was damn hard to make friends while I was feeling like all I wanted to do was go hide in a hole.

It finally went away, but I don’t even really want to tell you how damn long it took.

I think some change is probably good, but I waited like two years longer than I should have to marry my now-hubster, simply cause I didn’t trust myself.

]]>