An Afternoon of Synchronicities with the HVAC guy

April 6th, 2007 by Atomictumor

So, I mentioned that I needed to get the heater fixed, and lo, I got the heater fixed.  The HVAC guy, Chuck, just took off.

I was working at the time on a blissfully slow day (next week will be hellweek at work, so this is the calm before the storm, evidently), and was able to sit outside and shoot the shit while he worked.  Turns out, the problem was that the intake on the unit itself was all clogged up with 10 odd years of dust, so not enough air was making through to the whatsit, and it was going into thermal meltdown, or something.  Those are technical terms, now, so I don’t expect all of you to understand.

We had to take apart the attractive fence blocking access to the thing, which was fun.  Now I have to either put the thing back together again (Daco, looking at you) or leave it sitting in my yard as is my redneck wont.

As we were talking, I mentioned how the letter I got was kinda irritating me.  He told me he knew all about medical bills, that his first wife died of cancer about 6 years ago.

We talked for a bit of loss, and life, and how things keep going.  He was (as is everybody else) amazed that it was just last November, and that it was so sudden.

We talked of the experience of feeling somebody thats dead.  Feeling them in a way that you know isn’t in your imagination, but in a way that you couldn’t possibly expect somebody else to understand.

He wound up getting married again, and we talked about how thats going, loving somebody else when you still have a first love.  He says it works out pretty well, but I still have some reservations.

Still tho, its amazing seeing the kind of things that happen.  Its hard to believe in coincidences when they hit so close to home like this.

The bill was nice and cheap too.  Heaters workin fine!

7 Responses to “An Afternoon of Synchronicities with the HVAC guy”



  1. Busy Mom Says:

    “Feeling them in a way that you know isn’t in your imagination”

    I get it, I have that about my mom, and, it’s hard to explain. It’s like she’s gone, but, she’s not far away.

    No, that sounds like a bad Hallmark card.

    I’ll work on the description.

  2. Netmom Says:

    Glad that someone shed a little warmth on your day, in more ways than one. I can’t believe how cold it is, and is going to be, for a few more days.

  3. daco Says:

    “Now I have to either put the thing back together again (Daco, looking at you) or leave it sitting in my yard as is my redneck wont.”

    Lookin’ at me hell. I didn’t knock that damn thing down.

  4. Dootz Says:

    Found your blog through Busy Mom. Very funny. I can relate to the HVAC situation. Our most recent problem with heat was a faulty “TACO” connector whatsit on the hot water heater, which was replaced not by 13 pesos but rather 325 dollars. I think I’ll go on a diet.

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  5. Punk hP Says:

    remind me to tell you the story of my visit by “The Psychic Plumbers From Hell”

  6. Atomictumor Says:

    Just fixed the fence with MastaG like manly men.
    Woot

  7. Ramona Dietrich Says:

    I came across your blog by chance. But, like you I sometimes wonder about the “chance” part. Anyway, I’m sorry for your loss. Your little boys are lucky to have you!