September 4th, 2007 by Atomictumor
I’m sitting in the back yard, with the laptop on my lap, as the sun goes down and the crickets chirp up their always crescendoing music of late summertime business. I’ve spent the last five minutes actually on Myspace, of all places, leaving as cryptic as I can come up with messages on peoples things, and wondering exactly why it is that I’ve been doing that, while surrounded by nature’s cacophony, with the vague feeling that ants are crawling down my pants.
To say that my day was wonderful would be a sublime understatement, I had the nicest day, following the nicest weekend. I had planned for an extra day to be added to my Labor Day (which, I still maintain, is a communistic holiday, so fly your flags all day long but remember ol’ AT telling you to thank Karl Marx for it), to coincide with the day off that the ladyfriend (which, I haven’t maintained yet, but might just start, isn’t the best name for her on this thing, but she’s not very forthcoming in coming up with a new one) had, and we had some sort of vague idea of going up to her family lakehouse.
Which we did, and had a lovely time.
I’ve been seeing The Beauty all around me quite often lately, as it seems that most everything is slipping nicely into place. The only real iron in the fire is the vague feeling that my parenting is lousy, but from what I’ve always heard from the good parents, if you think you’re a lousy parent, you’re actually doing a good job. I think its the same kind of thinking applied to if you think you can breath underwater, you actually can, except that drowning is not supposed to be involved.
I digress.
No, work is going very nicely. The ladyfriend and I are getting along very well and overcoming many of those interesting, varied, and unnamed obstacles involved in being a widower dating (and dating a widower, which I wouldn’t really wish on a tick). The kids like her, the friends like her, the family (thats met her) like her, and most importantly, I like her, quite a bit.
Peachy keen.
So, point is, we had a damn good day. As I sit out here, vaguely wishing I had a beer, or a coffee, or something nice in my hand, I’m waiting on her to show back up over here, where we have some sort of plan of watching Kill Bill or something like that.
Yep. A peaceful easy feeling, except I hate (as The Dude before me did) the f—ing Eagles.
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Today was Pigpen’s first soccer practice, and he ran around like a champ. Its so amazingly fun to watch the joy of a 5 year old in action.
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Oh yeah, I completely forgot, one of the reasons I’m in such a great mood is that I found out, while tooling on myspace, that Christabel and the Jons are going to be at Oodles again on Friday night. Sounds good to me. And yes, they’re one of my Myspace friends. See, I’m kinda connected.
September 4th, 2007 at 8:58 pm
Dude, I wanna go on Friday.
September 4th, 2007 at 8:59 pm
Oh, and I’m glad that you had such a great day! Cheers to you and the ladyfriend.
September 4th, 2007 at 9:43 pm
Told you life is good.
September 4th, 2007 at 9:45 pm
“which, I still maintain, is a communistic holiday”
Uh, no. That’s May 1st.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/May_Day
September 5th, 2007 at 7:33 am
I didn’t say it was the only holiday derived from communism.
September 5th, 2007 at 8:28 am
Glad life is looking up for you and the boys. Some of my best times as a mother was wathcing them play sports, broke my heart when they stopped. I like “lady friend” sounds special.
September 5th, 2007 at 9:11 am
Commies got more than one holiday? Who knew?
September 5th, 2007 at 9:33 am
I am happy for you. Can we still be friends even tho I think the Eagles are the greatest evah? You won’t hold that against me, right?
September 5th, 2007 at 1:51 pm
I’m glad things are going so well for you AT!
September 5th, 2007 at 6:53 pm
Sounds like a great day, glad it happened to you.
September 5th, 2007 at 8:09 pm
Heh … I see she’s a redhead. Heh heh … heh heh heh.
Dude … that’s awesome.
September 6th, 2007 at 12:39 am
That picture sure is a tease…
September 6th, 2007 at 2:05 pm
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September 6th, 2007 at 10:40 pm
:-)